Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of John Lauder with the following comment:
I cannot believe you have this service. These folk are my kin. John Lauder and Janet Steven are my direct ancestors and my mother always said that a cemetery was built where a house was - but she thought it was Cathcart cemetery and a different branch of the tree. I had given up finding out the truth of this story.I have have that wonderful feeling of connection again. Wow! Thank you so much